This is a modern wedding ceremony script from the Church of England. For a ceremony with more traditional verbiage you can also look at the wedding ceremony from the 1928 prayer book. It has the ceremony you often hear in movies from that time period.
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ,the love of God,
and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you All.
And also with you.
God is love, and those who live in love live in God
and God lives in them.
1 John 4.16
God of wonder and of joy, grace comes from you, and you alone are the source of life and love.
Without you, we cannot please you;
without your love, our deeds are worth nothing. Send your Holy Spirit,
and pour into our hearts that most excellent gift of love, that we may worship you now with thankful hearts and serve you always with willing minds; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
In the presence of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, we have come together to witness the marriage of Bride and Groom, to pray for God's blessing on them, to share their joy and to celebrate their love.
Marriage is a gift of God in creation through which husband and wife may know the grace of God. It is given that as man and woman grow together in love and trust, they shall be united with one another in heart, body and mind, as Christ is united with his bride, the Church. The gift of marriage brings husband and wife together in the delight and tenderness of sexual union and joyful commitment to the end of their lives. It is given as the foundation of family life in which children are [born and] nurtured and in which each member of the family,in good times and in bad, may find strength, companionship and comfort, and grow to maturity in love. Marriage is a way of life made holy by God, and blessed by the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ with those celebrating a wedding at Cana in Galilee. Marriage is a sign of unity and loyalty which all should uphold and honour. It enriches society and strengthens community. No one should enter into it lightly or selfishly but reverently and responsibly in the sight of almighty God.
B and G are now to enter this way of life. They will each give their consent to the other and make solemn vows, and in token of this they will [each] give and receive a ring. We pray with them that the Holy Spirit will guide and strengthen them, that they may fulfil God's purposes for the whole of their earthly life together.
The DeclarationsThe minister says to the congregation
First, I am required to ask anyone present who knows a reason why these persons may not lawfully marry, to declare it now.
The minister says to the couple:
The vows you are about to take are to be made in the presence of God, who is judge of all and knows all the secrets of our hearts; therefore if either of you knows a reason why you may not lawfully marry, you must declare it now.
The minister says to the bridegroom
Groom, will you take Bride to be your wife? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and protect her, and, forsaking all others, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?
The minister says to the bride
Bride, will you take Groom to be your husband? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and protect him, and, forsaking all others, be faithful to him as long as you both shall live?
The minister says to the congregation
Will you, the families and friends of Bride and Groom, support and uphold them in their marriage now and in the years to come?
The minister invites the people to pray, silence is kept and the minister says the Collect
God our Father, from the beginning you have blessed creation with abundant life. Pour out your blessings upon Bride and Groom, that they may be joined in mutual love and companionship, in holiness and commitment to each other. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ your Son, who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
Readings - At least one reading from the Bible is used.
Sermon (usually about the reading)
A hymn may be sung.
The couple stand before the minister.
The minister introduces the vows in these or similar words
Groom and Bride, I now invite you to join hands and make your vows,
in the presence of God and his people.
The bride and bridegroom face each other.
The bridegroom takes the bride's right hand in his.
These words, or those provided here, are used
I, Groom, take you, Bride, to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward; for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part;
according to God's holy law. In the presence of God I make this vow.
The bride takes the bridegroom's right hand in hers, and says
I, Bride, take you, Groom, to be my husband, to have and to hold
from this day forward; for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part;
according to God's holy law. In the presence of God I make this vow.
The Giving of Rings
The minister receives the ring(s), and says this prayer or similar
Heavenly Father, by your blessing let these rings be to Bride and Groom a symbol of unending love and faithfulness, to remind them of the vow and covenant which they have made this day through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
The bridegroom places the ring on the fourth finger of the bride's left hand and, holding it there, says
Bride, I give you this ring as a sign of our marriage. With my body I honour you, all that I am I give to you, and all that I have I share with you, within the love of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
If rings are exchanged, they loose hands and the bride places a ring on the fourth finger of the bridegroom's left hand and, holding it there, says
Groom, I give you this ring as a sign of our marriage. With my body I honour you, all that I am I give to you, and all that I have I share with you, within the love of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
If only one ring is used, before they loose hands the bride says
Bride, I receive this ring as a sign of our marriage. With my body I honour you, all that I am I give to you, and all that I have I share with you, within the love of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
The minister addresses the people
In the presence of God, and before this congregation, Bride and Groom have given their consent and made their marriage vows to each other. They have declared their marriage by the joining of hands and by the giving and receiving of rings. I therefore proclaim that they are husband and wife.
(this is usually where the bride and groom kiss)
The minister joins their right hands together and says:
Those whom God has joined together let no one put asunder.
The Blessing Of The Marriage
The husband and wife kneel. The minister may use the following blessing or one of those provided here.
Blessed are you, O Lord our God, for you have created joy and gladness, pleasure and delight, love, peace and fellowship. Pour out the abundance of your blessing upon Bride and Groom in their new life together. Let their love for each other be a seal upon their hearts and a crown upon their heads. Bless them in their work and in their companionship; awake and asleep, in joy and in sorrow, in life and in death. Finally, in your mercy, bring them to that banquet where your saints feast for ever in your heavenly home. We ask this through Jesus Christ your Son, our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
The minister says to the couple
God the Father, God the Son,
God the Holy Spirit, bless, preserve and keep you; the Lord mercifully grant you the riches of his grace, that you may please him both in body and soul, and, living together in faith and love, may receive the blessings of eternal life. Amen.
Registration Of The Marriage
A hymn or psalm may be used.
Prayers of Thanksgiving, spiritual growth, faithfulness, joy, love, forgiveness and healing and/or children, other family members and friends
The prayers conclude with the Lord's Prayer.
Let us pray with confidence as our Saviour has taught us
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done; on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory,for ever and ever. Amen.
A hymn may be sung.
Presentation of Mr and Mrs (how the couple choose to be addressed as a married couple)
The minister says
God the Holy Trinity make you strong in faith and love, defend you on every side, and guide you in truth and peace; and the blessing of God almighty, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit,
be among you and remain with you always. Amen.
Christian Wedding Ceremony Scripts